Most people I talk to in my congregation struggle with the same quiet fear. They look at their own lives—the repeated sins, the coldness of their hearts, and the many ways they fail—and they wonder if God is eventually going to run out of patience. We have a habit of measuring God’s love by our own human capacity. We think His affection works like ours: it ebbs and flows based on how well the other person is behaving. We treat the Gospel like a bank account where we are constantly worried about overdrawing our balance.
John Bunyan, the man most of us know for writing The Pilgrim’s Progress, spent his final days preparing a manual for this exact problem. All Loves Excelling is a deep study of Ephesians 3:18-19, where the Apostle Paul prays that we would know the “breadth, and length, and depth, and height” of Christ’s love. As a pastor who subscribes to the Westminster Confession, I found Bunyan’s insights to be a necessary weight for our often light-headed age. He shows us that the love of Christ is not a shallow pond; it is an infinite ocean that matches every dimension of our human misery.
A Love Broad Enough to Cover the Leprosy of Sin
Bunyan begins with the “breadth” of this love. He notes that sin is a spreading disease. It is like a leprosy that doesn’t just stay in one spot but covers the whole person. We often feel that our sin has spread so far that it has reached the very edges of our lives, leaving no room for grace.
Bunyan argues that God’s grace has a broader “skirt” than our sin has a “leprosy.” No matter how far your corruption has spread, the breadth of God’s mercy in Christ is wider. It overmatches the “overflowing rage” of our enemies and the vastness of our own failures. This is a comfort because it means we never have to fear that we have “out-sinned” the reach of the Gospel.
“Be the spreading nature of our corruptions never so broad, he will find sharp-pointed things enough to stick in the mire of them, for our affliction. . . But now, answerable to the spreading of these sharp-pointed things, there is a super-abounding breadth in the sovereign grace of God.”
An Arm Long Enough to Reach the Fugitive
Sometimes we don’t just feel dirty; we feel distant. We feel as if we have been driven away from God by the “mighty tempest” of our own guilt. We think we have wandered so far into the wilderness that God can no longer see us or hear our cries. We “measure arms” with God, assuming that because we cannot reach Him, He cannot reach us.
Bunyan reminds us that God has a very long arm. He can reach Jonah in the belly of a whale and he can reach a backslider in the deepest corner of their rebellion. The “length” of Christ’s love means that no distance is too great for His grace to bridge. Even when we feel “free among the dead,” God’s mercy can extend itself to find us and bring us back to stand before Him.
“Do not thou conclude, that because thou canst not reach God by thy short stump, therefore he cannot reach thee with his long arm. Look again, ‘Hast thou an arm like God,’ an arm like his for length and strength? It becomes thee, when thou canst not perceive that God is within the reach of thy arm, then to believe that thou art within the reach of his.”
Everlasting Arms Underneath the Sinking Soul
There are seasons in the Christian life that feel like “sinking fits.” We aren’t just far away; we are going down. We feel the load of the curse, the weight of the law, and the pressure of the devil treading us down into the “deep mire.” This is where the “depth” of Christ’s love becomes our only hope.
Bunyan explains that no matter how deep the pit of our distress, the mercy of God lies even deeper. He uses the beautiful image of “everlasting arms” that are “underneath” the believer. Even if you sink as deep as hell itself, you will eventually hit the “couching” mercy of God that catches you. This depth is what allows a Christian to be “satisfied though guilty,” knowing that the riches of God’s wisdom have found a way to save those in the lowest depths.
“Lord, my soul in this depth of sorrow calls for help to thy depth of mercy. For though I am sinking and going down, yet not so low, but that thy mercy is yet underneath me: Do of thy compassions open those everlasting arms, and catch him that has no help or stay in himself.”
A Ladder for the High Mountains of Difficulty
If breadth, length, and depth deal with our internal struggles, “height” deals with our external obstacles. We often look at the “giants” in our way—spiritual wickedness in high places, the distance of heaven, or the “high walls” of our own corrupted reason—and we despair of ever reaching the goal.
Bunyan points us to Jesus Christ as the “Jacob’s ladder.” While heaven is unreachably high for a sinner, Christ is the ladder that stands on the earth and reaches the celestial gate. The height of His grace is intended to bring us over every dark mountain and every angelic opposition. This reminds us that our entry into heaven does not depend on our climbing ability, but on the One who has already mounted up and promised to draw us after Him.
The Wisdom of Cross-Handed Blessings
One of the most profound sections of the book deals with how we judge God’s dealings with us. Bunyan observes that we often prefer providences that “smile upon the flesh”—health, wealth, and ease. We think these are the signs of God’s love. But Bunyan argues that God often works like Jacob, who crossed his hands when blessing Joseph’s sons, putting the greater blessing on the head of the younger.
God often takes away what is desirable to the flesh to make us “fruitful in the land of our affliction.” Sickness, loss, and disappointment are often the “cross-handed” ways God delivers His best treasures. This reflection is vital because it stops us from judging God’s heart by our circumstances. The afflicted Christian is often the “best sort of Christian” because they have seen the works of the Lord in the deep waters.
“He therefore, in blessing of his people, lays his hands across, guiding them wittingly, and laying the chiefest blessing on the head of Ephraim, or in that providence, that sanctifies affliction.”
The Best Knowledge Is Knowing You Can’t Know It All
The central paradox of the book is that we are commanded to “know” a love that “passeth knowledge.” Bunyan explains that the highest attainment of a Christian is to realize that the love of Christ is unsearchable. If we could fully understand it, it would be finite like us. Because it is eternal and infinite, it will keep us occupied for all eternity.
Knowing that Christ’s love is beyond us gives us a “help in reserve” during times of temptation. When the devil tells you that your sin is too great to be forgiven, you can answer that Christ loves with a love that “passeth knowledge.” It is a weapon that baffles the enemy. Our small minds cannot find the bottom of this ocean, and that is exactly why we can rest in it.
Why You Should Spend Time With This Book
You should read All Loves Excelling because it will force you to stop looking at your own “short stump” of an arm and start looking at the infinite reach of Christ. John Bunyan wrote this while he was essentially packing his bags for the “Celestial City,” and he writes with the urgency of a man who knows that nothing else matters.